Do something out of the ordinary today for your spouse–something that proves (to you and to them) that your love is based on your choice and nothing else.  Wash her car.  Clean the kitchen....

Dare: Think of a specific way you’d like to greet your spouse today.  Do it with a smile and with enthusiasm. Then determine to change your regular greetings to reflect your love for him (her).

Dare: Think of a specific way you’d like to greet your spouse today.  Do it with a smile and with enthusiasm. Then determine to change your regular greetings to reflect your love for him (her).

Dare: Determine to become your spouse’s biggest fan and to reject any thoughts of jealousy.  To help you set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, take yesterday’s...

Dare: Determine to become your spouse’s biggest fan and to reject any thoughts of jealousy.  To help you set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, take yesterday’s...

By the way, at the end of this dare (the dare with making the lists), the book asks Which list was easier to make?  What does this reveal about your thoughts?   Oh, man.  Good question. But...